Crystal wants to know whether or not it’s her place to say something to pregnant woman who either smoke or drink in public.

She says that whenever she sees a pregnant woman drink or smoke, it really upsets her, because she works in the health industry, and knows how damaging it can be on the young life still forming the womb.

She sometimes wonders whether the young women she sees with a cigarette or drink in hand realise the danger they are putting their young offspring in.

But she wants to know whether or not it’s appropriate to say something to the mother.

Should Crystal say something if she’s concerned? If so, what should she say?

Or would it be rude of her to do so? Is it undermining the mother's choices?

Crystal is genuinely concerned about the negative impact on these young lives – should she let go of her concerns or say something?