Stuart’s younger brother says he's gay, and says he's known it for a long time.
 
Stuart and his brother were raised in a Christian family. He knows their parents will be shocked to find out about his brother's sexuality. But, Stuart’s brother hasn't told her their parents - and it's easy to hide from them because they live overseas.
 
Stuart feels trapped in the middle - and doesn't know what to do. Every time he speaks to his parents he feels as though he's keeping it from them, and doesn't know whether it's his responsibility to tell them or not, since his brother isn't going to.

He doesn’t want to feel as though he’s deceiving his parents, but he also wants to respect his brother’s wishes. What do you do when you feel caught between family members?

Maybe you’ve been in a similar situation: where a sibling has kept something from your parents. What was your response? Should Stuart update his parents on this significant development in his brother’s life, or keep out of it and let whatever happens, happen?